Have you ever ignored someone just because you felt they were being annoying? Intentionally or unintentionally the answer is yes. In our lives, we have all done this at least once and it could have been by telling them they were annoying just because they were excited about something or by outright refusing to answer someone and ignoring their existence by acting like they didn’t exist simply when they were trying to make a conversation with you. I’ve been there and trust me, it’s not fun. People have intentionally avoided me and why? I don’t know and that is an answer I might never find out or if I’m lucky enough maybe one day. I truly don’t understand how people are capable of not answering someone, this I believe is one of the lowest forms of disrespect; disrespect not just to their worth but also to their existence. Maybe this is the reason even when nobody answers during an online class, I try to because in some way or form I see myself in that position. It doesn’t cost much to be kind, maybe you dislike that person or maybe you just don’t wanna talk but intentionally acting like they don’t exist is not the way to answer.  Often, the disrespected person still try to be kind, why? because they can’t treat you the same way you’ve treated them. I haven’t heard anyone talking about this, this feeling of not knowing why you’ve been treated with hate when you try your best to be kind but ironically we’ve all experienced it.

 

This is not a rant, this is rather an Emotion which I felt was necessary to be addressed because both you and I deserve to be acknowledged and respected. If no body treats you with the respect you deserve, the kindness you deserve, the love you deserve then remember to stand up for yourself because if you don’t, then who will?